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July 2026
1619: The Lingering Imprint Returns This Fall – Ideas Welcome 07/04/2026
Evolution of Holidays: What Are We Doing for Thanksgiving This Year? 07/01/2026
A Message From The President: Bridget Brewster 07/01/2026
A New Year, A New Board of Directors 07/01/2026
Gertrude Stein and the Birth of Modernism: A Family Connection 07/01/2026
Home Sweet Home...No Moving Required 07/01/2026
How Did You Get Here? 07/01/2026
Scams, Frauds, AI…Oh No, Not Again 07/01/2026
Two's Company! 07/01/2026
Village Magic 07/01/2026
June 2026
Home Sweet Home...No Moving Required Designing Spaces for Safe and Secure Living 06/09/2026
Ability Resource Fair - A.R.F.! 06/01/2026
Building Community: The Village Engagement Team Welcomes New Villagers 06/01/2026
Goals, Priorities and Tasks. Oh, My! 06/01/2026
Jabber-Walkies 06/01/2026
LGBTQ+ Bars: A Book-talk 06/01/2026
Ladies Who Lunch 06/01/2026
President’s Message 06/01/2026
May 2026
What Are "Teams"? 05/24/2026
What Does Board Oversight Mean? 05/19/2026
April 2026
Aging in Harmony: Pasadena Village and Encore Creativity 04/29/2026
Altadena’s Coyote Comeback 04/29/2026
Catch it Before it's Gone! 04/29/2026
In Sickness and in Health: Interview with a Caregiver 04/29/2026
Legacy Project 04/29/2026
Not Too Old To Get Carded 04/29/2026
President's Message 04/29/2026
Stuck in Milwaukee - Airplane Travel 2026 04/29/2026
The Art Journaling Workshop 04/29/2026
Think You're Losing Your Mind? 04/29/2026
Visiting The Getty 04/29/2026
March 2026
My Home For Now 03/30/2026
My Home for Now 03/30/2026
Black History Month: Poetry Reading Brings Community Together 03/26/2026
Do I Really Need a Will and/or a Trust? 03/26/2026
Everybody Needs a Blankie 03/26/2026
Fire Recovery Grants – Giving Back to the Community 03/26/2026
Kickoff: Prepared 50+ Emergency Preparedness 03/26/2026
President’s Message: Volunteering to Build Community 03/26/2026
The Birth of an Archive for Pasadena Village 03/26/2026
Too Smart to be Scammed? 03/26/2026
“I DIDN’T KNOW THAT!” A Refresher Course 03/26/2026
Across the Waiting Room 03/11/2026
February 2026
Refresh and Refocus 1619: Continuing the Dialogue 02/28/2026
Status - February 28, 2026 02/28/2026
AI Presentation 02/26/2026
Exploring the “Cheech” 02/26/2026
Mary Mejia is Here to Make a Difference 02/26/2026
One Year On 02/26/2026
President’s Message – March 2026 02/26/2026
Support Groups: Who, What, When, Where, and Why? 02/26/2026
Volunteering, Belonging, and the Power of Connection 02/21/2026
January 2026
BEACONS OF HOPE - The Dump Trucks of the Eaton Fire 01/29/2026
Exploring the Hidden Trails Together: The Pasadena Village Hiking Group 01/28/2026
Five Years of Transformative Leadership at Pasadena Village 01/28/2026
For Your Hearing Considerations: A Presentation by Dr. Philip Salomon, Audiologist 01/28/2026
Hearts & Limbs in Zambia 01/28/2026
Lost Trees of Altadena Return Home 01/28/2026
President's Message: WHY the Village Works 01/28/2026
TV: Behind the Scenes 01/28/2026
Trauma to Triumph 01/28/2026
1619 Group Reflects on Politics, Climate, and Democratic Strain 01/23/2026
How Pasadena Village Helped Me Rebuild After the Eaton Fire 01/10/2026
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May 2026
What Are "Teams"? 05/24/2026

Loneliness Kills, Social Connections Heal

By Ed Mervine · Posted 11/27/2023

“The mortality impact of being socially disconnected is similar to that caused by smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day, and even greater than that associated with obesity and physical inactivity.”

U.S. Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy released an advisory on May 3, 2023, that addresses the epidemic of loneliness and isolation currently causing chaos and negatively impacting the health of our nation, its people, and its institutions. A Surgeon General advisory is a call to action. Past advisories rallied national resources and efforts to combat tobacco use, obesity, and addiction.

In the May advisory, the Surgeon General concludes that loneliness “is far more than just a bad feeling—it harms both individual and societal health. It is associated with a greater risk of cardiovascular disease, dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and premature death. …The harmful consequences of a society that lacks social connection can be felt in our schools, workplaces, and civic organizations, where performance, productivity, and engagement are diminished.”

The Village to Village movement, which includes the Pasadena Village, predates the Surgeon General’s advisory and anticipated many of the advisory’s findings, recommendations, and goals.

The Village to Village movement is a response from our generation to the societal changes that created the dehumanizing and terrifying environment that confronts many, if not most, of us in the later stages of our lives. Challenged by a system that isolates and infantilizes older people, a healthcare industry that efficiently warehouses but is largely devoid of social connection, meaning or purpose, and a society focused on youth and economic growth, we decided to do it ourselves and thus the Village was born. The lives of those of us who became Villagers changed. Many of us found a reason to get out of bed in the morning. Life is more fun. It’s more meaningful, more fulfilling, and more purposeful.

Villagers’ endorsements

Listen to the voices of Pasadena Villagers talk about what the Village means to them. Purnima Barve recently joined the Village and immediately experienced a health problem in a community where she knew no one. “I feel awful,” she says, “for having been clumsy to fall: however, at the same time, I feel grateful that I fell in a place where I was surrounded by such a wonderful compassionate group of people.” Read her note here that expresses gratitude for the welcoming attitude of the Village and what it means when you are experiencing the difficulties that arise all too frequently in life. Valerie Jones, a single woman, states, “I have yet to meet an unfriendly neighbor in the Village.” Val provides an excellent description of the richness and variety of life in the Village and what that can mean to someone moving into a new community or connecting to more activity in their existing community. Their words are a clear endorsement of how the Pasadena Village’s commitment to self-governance and mutual support creates healthy communities, mends social disconnection and ends isolation.

The fact that the Village positively affects our health and adds months, if not years, to our lives seems obvious. That Villagers also have much to contribute to “a movement to mend the social fabric of our nation” (Surgeon General’s Advisory) also seems obvious. Our generation is not finished yet. How we respond to the loneliness epidemic will be part of our legacy to our children and grandchildren. We can choose to leave an example of how to create healthier communities and how life can be richer and more fulfilling.

More research and impact

Watch this space in future editions of the Voice of the Village for further discussions concerning the Pasadena Village formula for restoring the health of isolated individuals and disconnected communities. We will also explore the impact the Village movement is having statewide and nationwide.

For example, we joined with Rutgers University, the Rand Corporation and the Village Network to collaboratively develop aging research. The purpose of this collaboration is the design of research “comparing the relative effectiveness of interventions that promote healthy outcomes of greatest importance to the people participating in the research.” ( Engaging Villages as Key Partners for Healthy Aging Research) We will also discuss efforts through Village Movement California, an organization focused more locally on the environment in our state and working to make improvements for the aging population here.

We are actively creating the world we would like to inhabit.

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