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July 2026
1619: The Lingering Imprint Returns This Fall – Ideas Welcome 07/04/2026
Evolution of Holidays: What Are We Doing for Thanksgiving This Year? 07/01/2026
A Message From The President: Bridget Brewster 07/01/2026
A New Year, A New Board of Directors 07/01/2026
Gertrude Stein and the Birth of Modernism: A Family Connection 07/01/2026
Home Sweet Home...No Moving Required 07/01/2026
How Did You Get Here? 07/01/2026
Scams, Frauds, AI…Oh No, Not Again 07/01/2026
Two's Company! 07/01/2026
Village Magic 07/01/2026
June 2026
Home Sweet Home...No Moving Required Designing Spaces for Safe and Secure Living 06/09/2026
Ability Resource Fair - A.R.F.! 06/01/2026
Building Community: The Village Engagement Team Welcomes New Villagers 06/01/2026
Goals, Priorities and Tasks. Oh, My! 06/01/2026
Jabber-Walkies 06/01/2026
LGBTQ+ Bars: A Book-talk 06/01/2026
Ladies Who Lunch 06/01/2026
President’s Message 06/01/2026
May 2026
What Are "Teams"? 05/24/2026
What Does Board Oversight Mean? 05/19/2026
April 2026
Aging in Harmony: Pasadena Village and Encore Creativity 04/29/2026
Altadena’s Coyote Comeback 04/29/2026
Catch it Before it's Gone! 04/29/2026
In Sickness and in Health: Interview with a Caregiver 04/29/2026
Legacy Project 04/29/2026
Not Too Old To Get Carded 04/29/2026
President's Message 04/29/2026
Stuck in Milwaukee - Airplane Travel 2026 04/29/2026
The Art Journaling Workshop 04/29/2026
Think You're Losing Your Mind? 04/29/2026
Visiting The Getty 04/29/2026
March 2026
My Home For Now 03/30/2026
My Home for Now 03/30/2026
Black History Month: Poetry Reading Brings Community Together 03/26/2026
Do I Really Need a Will and/or a Trust? 03/26/2026
Everybody Needs a Blankie 03/26/2026
Fire Recovery Grants – Giving Back to the Community 03/26/2026
Kickoff: Prepared 50+ Emergency Preparedness 03/26/2026
President’s Message: Volunteering to Build Community 03/26/2026
The Birth of an Archive for Pasadena Village 03/26/2026
Too Smart to be Scammed? 03/26/2026
“I DIDN’T KNOW THAT!” A Refresher Course 03/26/2026
Across the Waiting Room 03/11/2026
February 2026
Refresh and Refocus 1619: Continuing the Dialogue 02/28/2026
Status - February 28, 2026 02/28/2026
AI Presentation 02/26/2026
Exploring the “Cheech” 02/26/2026
Mary Mejia is Here to Make a Difference 02/26/2026
One Year On 02/26/2026
President’s Message – March 2026 02/26/2026
Support Groups: Who, What, When, Where, and Why? 02/26/2026
Volunteering, Belonging, and the Power of Connection 02/21/2026
January 2026
BEACONS OF HOPE - The Dump Trucks of the Eaton Fire 01/29/2026
Exploring the Hidden Trails Together: The Pasadena Village Hiking Group 01/28/2026
Five Years of Transformative Leadership at Pasadena Village 01/28/2026
For Your Hearing Considerations: A Presentation by Dr. Philip Salomon, Audiologist 01/28/2026
Hearts & Limbs in Zambia 01/28/2026
Lost Trees of Altadena Return Home 01/28/2026
President's Message: WHY the Village Works 01/28/2026
TV: Behind the Scenes 01/28/2026
Trauma to Triumph 01/28/2026
1619 Group Reflects on Politics, Climate, and Democratic Strain 01/23/2026
How Pasadena Village Helped Me Rebuild After the Eaton Fire 01/10/2026
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May 2026
What Are "Teams"? 05/24/2026

June Weddings, Summer, Father’s Day, and more

By John Tuite · Posted 05/27/2021
Men's Time Topic Discussion for Tuesday, June 1st

Gentle Men of the Village, I welcome you to the month of June, 2021!  Juno, the Roman
mythological goddess, and Queen of the gods!  June brings summer, heat, morning gloom,
greater freedom from Covid constraints for Californians, the celebration of fathers and the
significance of Fatherhood, wedding events postponed since last year, family gatherings with members from afar not seen in a year or more!

Workers are giving up gym clothes and returning to their cubicles, some happy, some not
so…children going back to school, real school!, some happy, some not so…

Usually I struggle to find juicy subjects that will interest you.  Not the problem this time…there
were too many good topics to choose from…but could I catch their juice?  I still don’t know.
In one week from today Lynne and I celebrate the 53rd year from the day we took our vows! 
Marriage is on my mind.  We have all had the experience.  For some there are only departed spouses…you could tell the rest of us what the experience was/is like.  We all could reflect on what the deep meanings are of living and loving and committing our lifetime to another…I invite you to share and give us insight to your experience.

I, for one, still have a memory of that first thrill that comes with falling in love…the impact of
ordinary things shared…the excitement of simple surprises…little gifts…sunrises and sunsets…and the remarkable, but mature (i.e. old) experience that I still get from some of those same things!  I never thought of having a legacy, something I will leave behind when I go, but now I have a family, daughters and sons-in-law, grandchildren, whom I love and who love me, whom I belong to, and who belong to me, who record that I was here, and who will tell stories to the yet unborn about me and the love we had, share pictures of Lynne and me at celebrations that were highlights of our life together.  And those yet unborn will hope that they can carry on the tradition of Sunday night dinners with loved ones and share trivia and love and celebrate having a history.  It all eases the thought of dying!

So, lets share thoughts this morning of life as husbands, fathers, grandfathers, and men of
legacy!
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