Blog archive
May 2024
Rumor of Humor #2416
05/14/2024
Rumor of Humor #2417
05/14/2024
Rumor of Humor #2417
05/14/2024
Rumor of Humor #2418
05/14/2024
Springtime Visitors
05/07/2024
Freezing for a Good Cause – Credit, That Is
05/02/2024
No Discussion Meeting on May 3rd
05/02/2024
An Apparently Normal Person Author Presentation and Book-signing
05/01/2024
Flintridge Center: Pasadena Village’s Neighbor That Changes Lives
05/01/2024
Pasadena Celebrates Older Americans Month 2024
05/01/2024
The 2024 Pasadena Village Volunteer Appreciation Lunch
05/01/2024
Woman of the Year: Katy Townsend
05/01/2024
April 2024
Rumor of Humor #2410
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2411
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2412
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2413
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2414
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2415
04/28/2024
Rumor of Humor #2416
04/28/2024
Stimulated by "Caste"
04/22/2024
Tulsa reparations, Religion and Politics
04/09/2024
March 2024
Trumps War with Black Women
03/31/2024
Addressing The Needs of Older Adults Through Pasadena Village
03/25/2024
Coming Soon: More Resources for Older Americans, Online and in Person
03/25/2024
Community Building Locally and Nationally
03/25/2024
Preparing for the Future with Ready or Not
03/25/2024
Volunteering is at The Heart of the Village
03/25/2024
Women's Liberation: Then and Now
03/25/2024
Writing Memoirs Together
03/25/2024
Current Views on Current Events
03/20/2024
Unchained
03/18/2024
Rumr of Humor issue # 2409
03/10/2024
Blacks Portrayed by European Artists
03/03/2024
Rumor of Humor #2408
03/03/2024
February 2024
Caring for Ourselves and Each Other
02/27/2024
Doug Colliflower Honored
02/27/2024
Great Decisions Connects Us to the Worldwide Community
02/27/2024
Letter from the President
02/27/2024
Pasadena Village's Impact
02/27/2024
The Power of Touch
02/27/2024
Villages as a New Approach to Aging
02/27/2024
Addressing Gang Violence in Pasadena-Altadena
02/21/2024
Rumor of Humor Issue 2407
02/19/2024
Thank You For Caring.
02/12/2024
Rumor of Humor 2405
02/11/2024
Curve Balls
02/10/2024
Sylvan Lane
02/10/2024
Rumor of Humor 2404
02/09/2024
Larry Duplechan, Blacks in Film
02/03/2024
January 2024
Pasadena Village Joins Community Partners in Vaccination Campaign
01/29/2024
Rumor of Humor #2403
01/28/2024
Pasadena Village Joins Two Healthy Aging Resource Projects
01/25/2024
Decluttering: Do It Now
01/24/2024
Village Volunteers Contribute to the Huntington Magic
01/24/2024
Villagers Creating Community
01/24/2024
Villagers Reflect on Black History Month
01/24/2024
Walk With Ease, 2024
01/24/2024
Wide Ranging Discussion on Current Issues
01/22/2024
Wide Ranging Discussion on Current Issues
01/22/2024
Rumor of Humor # 2402
01/21/2024
Rumor of Humor # 2401
01/15/2024
Re- Entry Programs, a Personal Experience
01/08/2024
Aging Gracefully in Pasadena
By Susan KujawaPosted: 10/23/2023
The New York Times recently featured an article that asks “Can America Age Gracefully?” and states that “An aging America needs an honest conversation about growing old.” The article describes some of the challenges we will face as our society is transformed by demographic changes resulting from an aging America.
The Times article points out some interesting facts: For example, by 2034 (just 10 years from now) there will be more Americans past retirement age than there are children. This change will create challenges in everything from healthcare and housing to employment and transportation. The article also cites a particular challenge that is deeply personal for us older adults: “Among the most elemental questions are where and how will we spend the closing years of our lives?”
Often, people decide to move closer to their adult children as they age. While such a move makes sense for many reasons, it also results in a dramatic shift for all involved. Now that the pandemic has ended, Pasadena Village has seen a steady growth in membership over the past year, including people who have moved to the Pasadena area to be closer to their children.
Marv Dainoff is a widower who moved to Pasadena to be near his children and his young grandchildren. He knew about the Village Movement and had been a Villager in Wellesley, MA. So it was an easy decision for him to join Pasadena Village as soon as he got settled. Marv says, “I’m exploring all of the Village offerings.” Living in a busy household, away from his longtime friends and without the company of his wife (and colleague), Marv appreciates “the routines and companionship” that he finds at the Village.
Another Villager who joined recently, Jim Hendrick, moved across the country to live near his daughter. He is pleased that he lives in Pasadena, a “15-minute” city, where all of the crucial and basic connections are within a 15-minute drive. And yet Jim wondered what to do with his time. It was his daughter who found the answer when a Google search pointed to Pasadena Village. Now, Jim says that “the Village and my daughter are the anchors of my 15-minute radius.”
Pasadena Village endeavors to meet the basic need to belong, often disrupted by re-location and loss of loved ones. Older adults understand in a very personal way the research data that connects loneliness to aging. New member John Merriam describes his rationale for joining Pasadena Village as “I realize I have a shrinking social circle. I want to make more friendships, and I know I don’t have much time left.” John echoes the voice of many of us older adults, who feel a sense of urgency to make the most of our time.
The increase in the aging population is often called a “silver tsunami,” as if the needs of older people are overwhelming the needs of younger ones. But the Village Movement, including Pasadena Village, models a different view. When older adults remain an integral part of the larger community, they demonstrate resilience, compassion, creativity, and resourcefulness — attributes that contribute not only to their own health, but also to that of the community.