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A New Year, A New Board of Directors 07/01/2026
Gertrude Stein and the Birth of Modernism: A Family Connection 07/01/2026
Home Sweet Home...No Moving Required 07/01/2026
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Village Magic 07/01/2026
June 2026
Home Sweet Home...No Moving Required Designing Spaces for Safe and Secure Living 06/09/2026
Ability Resource Fair - A.R.F.! 06/01/2026
Building Community: The Village Engagement Team Welcomes New Villagers 06/01/2026
Goals, Priorities and Tasks. Oh, My! 06/01/2026
Jabber-Walkies 06/01/2026
LGBTQ+ Bars: A Book-talk 06/01/2026
Ladies Who Lunch 06/01/2026
President’s Message 06/01/2026
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What Are "Teams"? 05/24/2026
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April 2026
Aging in Harmony: Pasadena Village and Encore Creativity 04/29/2026
Altadena’s Coyote Comeback 04/29/2026
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In Sickness and in Health: Interview with a Caregiver 04/29/2026
Legacy Project 04/29/2026
Not Too Old To Get Carded 04/29/2026
President's Message 04/29/2026
Stuck in Milwaukee - Airplane Travel 2026 04/29/2026
The Art Journaling Workshop 04/29/2026
Think You're Losing Your Mind? 04/29/2026
Visiting The Getty 04/29/2026
March 2026
My Home For Now 03/30/2026
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Black History Month: Poetry Reading Brings Community Together 03/26/2026
Do I Really Need a Will and/or a Trust? 03/26/2026
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Too Smart to be Scammed? 03/26/2026
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February 2026
Refresh and Refocus 1619: Continuing the Dialogue 02/28/2026
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AI Presentation 02/26/2026
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BEACONS OF HOPE - The Dump Trucks of the Eaton Fire 01/29/2026
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Five Years of Transformative Leadership at Pasadena Village 01/28/2026
For Your Hearing Considerations: A Presentation by Dr. Philip Salomon, Audiologist 01/28/2026
Hearts & Limbs in Zambia 01/28/2026
Lost Trees of Altadena Return Home 01/28/2026
President's Message: WHY the Village Works 01/28/2026
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Trauma to Triumph 01/28/2026
1619 Group Reflects on Politics, Climate, and Democratic Strain 01/23/2026
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Betty Kilby, A Family History

By Sharon Jarrett · Posted 09/27/2024

The group had a presentation by Betty Kilby Baldwin.  Dr. Baldwin is the author of "Wit, Will and Walls" and the coauthor of "Cousins", with her cousin Phoebe Kilby. A recording of a talk by Betty and Phoebe regarding their book is available on the Village YouTube Channel. You can read about their presentation on our blog post – Cousins. This current talk was recorded and is also available on the Pasadena Village YouTube channel as Betty Kilby, A Family History. 

Dr. Baldwin began her talk sharing her belief that "you cannot reject or change the past" but you can use the past to "educate, encourage and motivate".

Dr. Baldwin began discussing her book "Wit, Will and Walls" with the story of her father, James Wilson Kilby.  Her father was a tenant farmer in Virginia, as were his family members.  He completed the fourth grade and then left school to help his family.  As an adult, he was defrauded of twenty-four acres of land because of his poor literacy skills.  This made him determined that his children would be educated.

He tried to enroll his oldest sons in Warren County High School only to discover the school was segregated.  His sons attended an alternative school which was inferior and did not provide his sons with the education he believed they should have.  With greater determination, he approached a Civil Rights lawyer, Oliver V. Warren, about ensuring Betty Ann Kilby could attend Warren County High School.

In 1959, Betty Ann Kilby et al v. Warren County Board of Education was filed.  This led to an order to desegregate the Warren County schools.

Dr. Baldwin shared her high school experiences.  At the time she entered high school she was fourteen and received threats, taunts and was physically attacked in the school gym.  She recounts being fearful every day she attended and wanting to stop. But, her father encouraged her to finish high school which she did, becoming the first female in her family to graduate from high school.  

She had a desire to continue her education but was unsuccessful in being admitted to any college she applied to.  Sixteen years later, she was able to enter Shenandoah College. She ultimately completed a Bachelor of Arts and Master of Arts degree and received an Honorary Doctorate.

In spite of what she has achieved, she still recounts the fear she felt in high school saying "you don't die but, know what death feels like".

Dr. Baldwin shared that her father lived long enough to see each of his five children graduate from college.

Questions followed and are available on the meeting recording posted on the Village YouTube Channel.

Those present thanked Dr. Baldwin for her presentation.

The group will meet again on October 18, 2024 at 12:00 PM PST. At the presentation, Sharon Kyle and Dick Price will return to provide us with more insight about how a mixed-race couple is affected by the background of racism that we all experience. Sharon and Dick have presented before and their presentation is available at Dick and Sharon, Mixed Race Marriage. This will be particularly interesting in this election year, as Dick and Sharon compare their reactions to the news of the day.

These presentations are open and we welcome guests. For more information about how to get access to the meetings, contact our office by email or phone at: 626-765-6037

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